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"Slow down, calm down, don't worry, don't hurry, trust the process." - Alexandra Stoddard

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

One Woman Awake

One Woman Awake Awakens another the second awakens her next-door neighbor and three awake can rouse the town And turn the whole place up side down And many awake can raise such a fuss That is finally awakens the rest of us. One woman up, With dawn in her eyes multiplies -- author unknown

Friday, August 2, 2013

the best

repost:
Luvs' Breastfeeding Commercial
This is hysterical. I love the mom, she is so sincere looking.

Friday, July 26, 2013

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

One Woman Army

I love this song! It's fun and the lyrics are so sweet, about a mothers love:
"Never knew what I was signing up for,
Knew it was hard but not this hardcore,
Never gonna stop, never gonna give up on you."

Friday, June 14, 2013

Going beyond fear

Going beyond fear begins when we examine our fear: our anxiety, nervousness, concern, and restlessness. If we look into our fear, if we look beneath the veneer, the first thing we find is sadness, beneath the nervousness. Nervousness is cranking up, vibrating all the time. When we slow down, when we relax with our fear, we find sadness, which is calm and gentle. Sadness hits you in your heart, and your body produces a tear. Before you cry, there is a feeling in your chest and then, after that you produce tears in your eyes. You are about to produce rain or waterfall in your eyes and you feel sad and lonely and perhaps romantic at the same time. That is the first tip of fearlessness, and the first sign of real warriorship. You might think that, when you experience fearlessness, you will hear the opening of Beethoven’s Fifth Symphony or see a great explosion in the sky, but it doesn’t happen that way. Discovering fearlessness comes from working the softness of the human heart.
~ Chogyam Trungpa

Friday, May 31, 2013

Happy Friday!

This is a happy story with a lot of lessons! Although she didn't plan a homebirth, this mom delivered her baby in her bathroom, calmly and without fear. Check it out!

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

How will I know my baby is getting enough to eat?

How will I know my baby is getting enough to eat?
-6 or more wet diapers a day by day 3
-4–8 ounces of weight gain a week after the first week
-3 or more stools a day by day 3
-Yellow stools by day 5
Mothers are often surprised to see how quickly their milk supply increases during the first 3–5 days after birth. What may seem like small amounts of milk at first turns out to be exactly what newborn babies need. Frequent feedings (8–12 times in each 24 hour period) ensures that each mother’s milk supply matches the needs of her growing baby.
The first days and weeks of your baby’s life will give you an opportunity to learn your baby’s feeding cues and feeding patterns, including signs that your baby is hungry or full. Should you see signs that your baby may not be getting enough to eat, contact your baby’s health care provider right away.
CREDIT: http://babygooroo.com/ Test Your Breastfeeding IQ: http://babygooroo.com/2012/10/test-your-breastfeeding-iq/

Friday, May 10, 2013

Thursday, May 2, 2013

beautiful words

Every midwife knows
that not until a mother’s womb
softens from the pain of labour
will a way unfold
and the infant find that opening to be born.
Oh friend! There is treasure in your heart,
it is heavy with child.
Listen. All the awakened ones,
like trusted midwives are saying,
'welcome this pain.'
It opens the dark passage of Grace.
~ Rumi

Saturday, March 23, 2013

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Singing to Baby in Utero

more info about this at http://www.scienceandsensibility.org/?p=6236&utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+science-sensibility+%28Science+%26+Sensibility%29

Advice from a new mom to pregnant moms

Giving Birth: You can do it - you are not sick or fragile or in danger - mother nature has this well thought out and trust the process.
Engage in any activity that will release fear.
Surround yourself with positive, supportive, nurturing people.
Treat your body gently and kindly.
Breastfeeding does not have to be oppressively suffocating - its actually pretty easy once you get the hang
Get a calendar to write baby's first and hang on fridge - the baby book never really comes out of the closet.
You don't need a lot of crap from babies r us - get massages with the money instead.
You wont kill your baby by co-sleeping
Prepare for your relationship with your family to change i.e. your own parents, aunts, uncle grandparents, partner
Go to counseling - it really helps - if you don't like who you first see don't give up
Breathe - try to savor quiet snuggly moments
DO NOT READ WHAT TO EXPECT OR ANY OTHER AWFUL PREGNANCY/PARENTING BOOK
DO NOT READ SCARY BIRTH STORIES ON THE INTERNET
ADD TWO WEEKS TO YOUR Estimated Due Date- PLAN ON BEING PREGGO TILL THEN
let people take care of you.
Keep the number of a lactation person on your fridge
-Anonymous