What really matters after the birth...

"Write off the six weeks after birth. Don't blame yourself for a single thing and expect nothing of yourself. This is what matters: that the baby is fed somehow, held, kept warm, and that you get enough sleep that you don't go crazy, and that you are both healthy. This is what doesn't matter: anything else - not whether the baby is on a schedule, not what either of you wears, not whether that other woman who was due around the same time is doing better than you are, not whether you love the baby yet, etc." -anonymous