a new cousin to love

Today I am reminded of how lucky I am to be part of a such a huge, wonderful family. My cousin gave birth to a beautiful, healthy baby girl this morning, they named her Emma. When my grandparents had 8 children, I am sure they had no idea how much love would come from these little creations. Now we have a family full of love that keeps growing each year. I feel so blessed to be one piece of this puzzle of two hearts that were joined together. Congratulations to my cousins, Katie and Len, on their new bundle of love.

Home Birth Debate goes on

“What we're talking about is felt risk rather than actual risk,” explains Barbara Katz-Rothman, professor of sociology at the City University of New York and author of much scholarship on birth, motherhood, and risk. Take our fear of flying. “Most people understand intellectually that on your standard vacation trip or business trip, the ride to and from the airport is more likely to result in your injury or death than the plane ride itself, but you never see anybody applaud when they reach the airport safely in the car.” The flight feels more risky. Similarly, we can look at data showing our risk of infection skyrockets the second we step in a hospital, “but there's something about the sight of all those gloves and masks that makes you feel safe.”

From the article: How to Scare Women by Jennifer Block

"The midwife considers the miracle of childbirth as normal, and leaves it alone unless there's trouble. The obstetrician normally sees childbirth as trouble: if he leaves it alone, it's a miracle." —Sheila Stubbs